Men’s Resources

Hope for today. Healing the silent wounds of abortion

Men’s Resources

Many men silently carry the weight of abortion, unsure where to turn or whether their feelings are even allowed. But here, there is no judgment—only support, understanding, and hope.

The resources listed below are here to help you. Whether you're looking for someone to talk to, a support group, or tools to begin your healing journey, you’ll find guidance and encouragement right here.

You are not forgotten. You are not alone. And it’s never too late to begin.

Reassemble

https://www.reassemblelife.com/reassemble

Over the last several years, Victoria’s work expanded when she started working with men who have had an abortion experience. For the man or woman searching for healing following an abortion, the retreat will provide freedom from the guilt and shame of a past abortion experience and move them on towards a brighter future.

Rachel’s Vineyard

https://www.newheartoftexas.org/rachels-vineyard/

New Heart of Texas is a Ministry that guides women and men through a healing process to find wholeness and forgiveness from the pain of abortion through Rachel’s Vineyard Retreats. Rachel’s Vineyard is a safe place to renew, rebuild and redeem hearts broken by abortion. These retreats offer a supportive, confidential, and non-judgmental environment where women and men can express, release, and reconcile painful emotions and being the process of restoration, renewal, and healing.

Deeper Still

https://www.godeeperstill.org

You’ve always been told abortion is a women’s issue. Whether you had a choice or not, you are still a father and your heart matters. Freedom from the wounds of abortion is also for you. Getting away from the busyness of life is the best way to find hope and healing. We do that through Deeper Still Retreats throughout the year all across the country. Every retreat is: free of charge, led by people who have been where you are, and a safe, confidential environment.

Support After Abortion

https://www.supportafterabortion.com/resources/mens-healing/

Men: Your pain is real. Men are not immune to the effects of their partner’s abortion. Men’s grief after abortion can be disenfranchised, overlooked by society. This hidden struggle can lead to isolation and emotional distress. Support After Abortion offers online programs and tools for growth and recovery for you to experience.

Save One

https://www.saveone.org/resources-for-men

Whether your past abortion experience happened because you forced it, paid for it, or begged her not to have it, the pain years later is the same. At SaveOne we recognize and understand your pain. We are here to help you, not judge you, or make you feel worse. SaveOne will guide you toward God’s Grace and His renewal of your mind.

Hope for Deeper Healing

https://www.hopefordeeperhealing.com/arrows/

74% of men said that they were the primary person their partner discussed her pregnancy decision with before having an abortion. Some found out later; others silently supported her decision. Either way, the weight of that decision can impact men for a lifetime. If you or someone you know is wrestling with the loss connected to abortion, you’re not alone. Arrows is a monthly online meeting for men to find encouragement and growth after an abortion loss—whether the experience was recent or many years ago.

The Haven

https://www.haventoledo.org

ARM (Abortion Recovery for Men) – Led by volunteers, this is a monthly group where men can talk about their own experience(s) with abortion

Healing Grace

HealingGrace@oasispregnancycenter.org

For men, we offer Healing a Father’s Heart and The Path to Sexual Healing. Programs are available in-person, virtually, and one-on-one. To learn more or get started, call 813-607-2468.

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